Would you rather be right, or would you rather be happy?Such vital questions may suggest that happiness needs you to ignore your truth, and accept that she's right. Or that you need to compromise in some fashion. Yet neither is true, they both perpetuate a simple misunderstanding!
Don’t confuse the issue with the facts!
That’s extremely interesting, I don't understand how you see it
like that, please explain it to me.
We are disagreeing, she thinks I am wrong and I think she is wrong. This can only be because I don't understand her perspective.Your rejection, your dislike of her perspective says that you don't really understand it. Then life bring you the ideal situation for you to overcome this problem in the way you think. The same situation, often with the volume turned up! The seriousness of each situation will increase the longer you ignore the message. There's a lot of truth in that wonderful French saying:
Plus ça change, plus c'est la même chose.
The more things change, the more they stay the same!